College freshmen dating advice
Usually, the best dating situations happen in the most unlikely of circumstances. Just like making gay friends, it's best to get out there and explore social or academic options on campus.You and another great single guy will eventually find each other.There were many gay and gay-friendly groups on campus that I could have joined.I could have also reached out and befriended more of my dorm friends.
Living in a residence hall as a freshman was the first time I ever lived on my own.
I later found out that they knew other gay people and they could have helped me make a connection.
Don't put all your hopes on one person when you're looking for gay friends on campus. I longed for a boyfriend, especially after I started meeting gay friends.
After months of thinking I was the only one, I ran across a guy in one of my classes who I thought might be gay. I invested a lot of time into trying to figure out if one guy was gay, as if he was my only option.
Tired of having no one to talk with about my sexuality, I did everything I could to befriend him. And while it paid off and I had a new gay friend, I think I should have explored more.There you have it – the answers to life, the universe, and everything – or maybe just to making freshman year the best it can be.