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She says they didn’t appear to have a lot in common, but unlike her first husband – whom she describes as a “deadbeat” – Elmer Raycroft seemed like a responsible man. During their brief, turbulent marriage, Isabelle says Elmer's impressive public image masked a dark, abusive personality in private.In 2014, she accused her husband of multiple counts of physical and sexual assault.“After he’d done all his yelling and I wasn’t co-operating, then he would throw something.” The first episode was unpleasant enough – she says that during an argument, he tossed a glass of water in her face.According to her, the incidents became more violent.When a man pinged her on the popular dating site in 2009, she was initially reluctant to continue the conversation. He told Isabelle he was also cautious about using his real name, because he was a “big wheel” in the town of Arnprior, Ont.He was a widower and using what he later revealed was his late wife’s email address.As deputy mayor, Elmer chaired the planning and fire committees and was heavily involved in decision-making on things that mattered most to townsfolk — everything from property taxes and hospital renovations to traffic lights.Elmer was often seen about town, fulfilling the duties of his office. we’d spend a lot of time listening to his stories and his latest feats.
It favoured Elmer’s kids, spelling out that in the event of his death, 80 per cent of his estate would go to his four children and 20 per cent to Isabelle. The marriage was never an attempt to get at his assets or his farm — Isabelle loved life in the country and was happy to start a new life with him. On the big day, Elmer’s cream-coloured tuxedo vest and tie matched her elegant dress.
She told officers she was leaving her husband, but had forgotten her pills and needed help in retrieving them.
She claimed she had a sore knee, but wouldn’t elaborate further.
“He was very outgoing, very happy, and everyone saluted him in Arnprior — ‘G’day, Elmer! He may have had a friendly reputation in Arnprior, but Isabelle’s daughters – Debbie Mc Carthy, Janet Methot and Sharon Palmer, who are all in their 50s – didn’t exactly take a shining to their mother’s new beau. We humoured him.” As their relationship progressed, Isabelle found Elmer started becoming “clingy.” After spending a few days with him on his farm, she says he would get upset when she tried to leave.
“He would just about break up and cry and throw himself on the floor.She told the police there was no physical violence in the relationship.